Posted by INBrajan # Inbarajan at 12:07 AM
During the Childhood days… all your Teachers & Parents pressured us to score more marks to get Good rank… Then in high schools they again pressured you for scoring enough in order to get into good Engineering College… Soon after the graduation… Some how everyone gets in to the Job, though desired or not… STOP! I am not here to find fault with their pressures, because they got a valid reason for their stress… So you planned each & every essential steps very carefully... But, What NEXT? Marriage is the only answer from the Parents/Life??? Aren’t there any things else in life?? I just want to know....

N.B:
I am not here to discuss about Merits & demerits about Marriage.

TITLE: Why do one want to Marry in their life ?

I know this is quite EARLY for me to discuss this topic, But then this discussion happened yesterday with my pals in the MMK ... (weird ! what is MMK ? Mokkai Munetra Kalagam, Sorry for those who don't understand Tamil, I don't know Translation for this),we discussed about all possible issues, problems that one faces in their daily life after marriage… We all know that opinion differs from each person in different perspectives. So, What do you obtain after the so called marriages ? Satisfaction? Responsibility? … If you have had noticed in your life, you very well know how hard your parents struggled in their life in all aspects of life - Money, Security, Finance, Children & their Studies? ….why to struggle so much? Which makes ones mind narrow, Do you want such an operation of Marriage?

Why do U want to Marry ?

Companionship !
Traditional Practice !
Can't escape ! That's the End !
That completes the life !
No Way ! Stay bachelor ! Rock !

Just want to hear from all of you !!

Thanks for the support !!



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6 comments:

Anonymous
1:31 AM

Mokkai Muntre Kalagam 'la ippadi oru topic eh......????
Enna kodumai sir idhu !!!!!

well,a nice one but!!
will come back to u after few years dude !

 
Unknown
12:48 AM

Marriage will give meaning to your life...Even after marriage you will rock once you start enjoying your responsibility....Dont accept as burden........

And Sir one day you will repeat my words....That time I will talk to you in detail......

Till then Njoy yyyyyyy maadi

 
INBrajan # Inbarajan
1:04 AM

@ Alka...
Thanks a lot madam for Visiting !!

Actually i am not against marriage... Just want to know the opinions, Since there is no other option other than marriage after JOB... we had plenty of degrees to choose n study / Business/ various Profession.... also plenty of job fields to survive... But Only one Option is to get Married !! why ? why ?

 
Anonymous
10:23 PM

Dear Inba,

First of all, you are not too young to discuss marriage! Its just the right time [:D]. Secondly, we are all crazy in our own ways, u know like taste,opinion,attitude,views,sense of humour etc. so keeping that in mind I think the best name for marriage would be companionship but to put a little bliss in it lets call it "Frienship"---u dont ask your friend to change, so dont expect your spouse to change either, and same goes for your spouse. You share and divide everything with your buddy minus all hassles (especially ego) do the same for your spouse---responsibility will not be a heavy word then ---I guess! That should make you feel a little positive towards the Institutuion of Marriage [:D]. At least, thats how I dealt it in my case...Cheer!!!

 
INBrajan # Inbarajan
10:55 PM

Hey BB,
Thanks a lot for the Visit & the comments !

My aspect is not find mistakes int the institution of marriages... Problems, fights are the majot possible outcomes in the marriages, may be I am wrong... But then your point is really a great concern between the couples & life.

 
Anonymous
10:53 PM

True to an level !

I hate that overwhelming feeling of being lost in another person, a person who is really a stranger that you have invited into your life . I hate feeling helpless, subservient, wistful, and all so emotional.What's so great about marriage? A complete stranger comes into your life and turns everything upside down. They listen to your favorite CDs, eat your favorite food, then sleep on your half of the bed. And they lie!
I advocate that we toss out this love thing and just start liking people. When you like someone, you're still free to like lots of other people at the same time. Try that with love! You're not wrapped up with syrupy feelings, and there's no obligation to continue liking someone forever. You can lie to someone you like and not feel guilty. They might resent you now, but they'll still like you later...
ITS MARRIAGE N LOVE THAT GIVES YOU ALL THE HEADACHES.

 

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